Of all the things that were the most difficult was being accused of coaching my children on the assaults. I just learned that during the many years we had no contact Vanessa told her story to her classmates. Their response was "why are you still here"? How bad does your childhood have to be for your friends to wonder why you didn't suicide. They know there was no contact but coaching is still their primary excuse for ignoring the assaults but the proof goes with avoiding being tied to a major crime. The plan was to have both kids write their stories but it became too difficult to relive the pain so I told them to shut it down. It appears that it wasn't too hard it was too dangerous. The system is ruthless as we know and will stop at nothing to shut this down, including threatening my daughter with the loss of her kids. Someone got to her because even after I told her to back away, I'll handle it, she not only unfriended me from facebook she blocked me. Eventually who came after her and what she was threatened with will come to light long before the RCMP are replaced by a private police force.
Of all the things that were the most difficult was being accused of coaching my children on the assaults. I just learned that during the many years we had no contact Vanessa told her story to her classmates. Their response was "why are you still here"? How bad does your childhood have to be for your friends to wonder why you didn't suicide. They know there was no contact but coaching is still their primary excuse for ignoring the assaults but the proof goes with avoiding being tied to a major crime.
ReplyDeleteThe plan was to have both kids write their stories but it became too difficult to relive the pain so I told them to shut it down. It appears that it wasn't too hard it was too dangerous. The system is ruthless as we know and will stop at nothing to shut this down, including threatening my daughter with the loss of her kids. Someone got to her because even after I told her to back away, I'll handle it, she not only unfriended me from facebook she blocked me.
Eventually who came after her and what she was threatened with will come to light long before the RCMP are replaced by a private police force.